“I’ve had enough, this is my prayer
That I’ll die livin’ just as free as my hair”
- Lady
Gaga
The experiment is over. The waste-bin is filled with the
remnants of my latest misguided attempt to grow out my hair and I feel…
relieved. There was something disingenuous about the whole ordeal, something
sordid and not quite right.
I’ve been shaving my head for the better part of a decade,
out of sheer convenience and utter laziness mainly, but also because I am too
cheap to pay some gay guy good money for something I can do at home for free.
It wasn’t something I thought about too much, unless somebody else brought it
up. Not having hair was never a part of my consciousness, until I decided to
grow it out.
A few weeks in and I realized that I was spending much more
time in front of the mirror, poking and primping my new Chia Pet, trying to
make it look… well, different than it looked. A month in and I began to wear a lot of hats. After 6 weeks I invested in some product,
indignantly paying $15 for “sculpting gel” whose entire purpose was to make me
look like I had just rolled out of bed. Yes, it did occur to me that I could
have just “rolled out of bed” instead, but my version of that particular look
and the actual look were very different.